How to help the girl achieve the big 'O'?

Sky_Blue223 SG

with research suggesting that only 29 per cent of women reach ‘the big O’ every time they have sex, compared to a lucky 75 per cent of men (how is this fair, ladies?). This may be because, according to Durex, around 75 per cent of all women never reach orgasm from intercourse alone and 10 to 15 per cent never climax under any circumstances.

http://sg.news.yahoo.com/10-surprising-sex-stats-090000860.html

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So as a guy, how do I help my partner achieve the big 'O'?

Trial and error seems to err for a slower guy like me. The only O would be "Ouch!"

airgrinder SG

buy her oreo cookie?

Summer120706 SG

One sure way to make the girl orgasm - buy her sex toys.

Combine sex and toy-plays together.

Sure cum .101%

Unless she's a nun from some temple.

Just_do_it_lah SG

Orgasm huh ?

why shy to spell it out.... you are in SgSexforums.

FireIce SG

depends on whether the guy is orlando bloom/brad pitt

for some, it has to be justin bieber

Sky_Blue223 SG

Orgasm huh ?

why shy to spell it out.... you are in SgSexforums.

Just following the article in case someone mistaken it for Oreo.

Just_do_it_lah SG

Give her a.... good foreplay....

starting with her favourite toy....

Sky_Blue223 SG

depends on whether the guy is orlando bloom/brad pitt

for some, it has to be justin bieber

Assuming you are a girl as your status reflects so,

So if brad pitt enters you when you are dry, you are gonna orgasm instead of feeling pain?

Interesting.

I wonder if this superifical post is indication of a conservative culture. Especially since that you are recognised here(Moderatress).

FireIce SG

so?

mancha SG

...a lucky 75 per cent of men ... reach orgasm everytime they have sex. This is bullshit, because the 25% is trying for a fourth or fifth shot, and can't.

Sky_Blue223 SG

One sure way to make the girl orgasm - buy her sex toys.

Combine sex and toy-plays together.

Sure cum .101%

Unless she's a nun from some temple.

Yep, I tried that before.

The troubling thing is not many sg women are adventurous enough to explore sex with toys. Once I fished it out of my bag, her eyes widen with shock and she was too apprehensive to try it.

So I was thinking on gathering feedback on the (alternative) methods for helping the girl achieve the big 'O'.

Sky_Blue223 SG

...a lucky 75 per cent of men ... reach orgasm everytime they have sex. This is bullshit, because the 25% is trying for a fourth or fifth shot, and can't.

So to the topic,

"How to help the girl achieve the big 'O'?"

96367366 SG

vibrator is da only option?

XxYaNxX SG

Foreplay is a must, get her in the mood for love making. Don't just rush her into bed, a long foreplay session boosts the libido. Make her wait for the moment, don't just give in. Get to know her body, find out what makes her say " Oooh" and " Ahhh" Toys are a great edition too, don't be intimidated by sex toys, they are an enhancement to your sex life and not a replacment.

i love it when my boyfriend can tell I really want sex, but keeps me waiting. Some days when I'm feeling submissive, I'll just let him take charge and pretty much let him do whatever he wants, vice versa. Other days, I'll let him watch me play with my sex toys, but no intercourse - really enjoyable for the both of us !!

ai-con SG

i agree with u

Sky_Blue223 SG

Foreplay is a must, get her in the mood for love making. Don't just rush her into bed, a long foreplay session boosts the libido. Make her wait for the moment, don't just give in, make her wait for the moment. Get to know her body, find out what makes her say " Oooh" and " Ahhh" Toys are a great edition too, don't be intimidated by sex toys, they are an enhancement to your sex life and not a replacment.

Yes to foreplay. Steamy hot sex do not escalate from a routine dinner.

Question here: Are hips and the stomach considered a sensitive spot? The answer varies by source.

mancha SG

So to the topic,

"How to help the girl achieve the big 'O'?"

All the technique is spelt out here. But they will be no use if the girl do not want to orgasm. No use if they keep pushing you away when they are aroused and aproaching orgasm, which they think is painful.

Just like you masturbating, you do it with a goal to ejaculate.

The girl must know, and like the sensation leading to orgasm first.

After that, try your foreplay, vibrator, cunnilingus, finger, whatever. She now has something to look forward to.

HiAy3Captain SG

wow so many experienced pros...

Sky_Blue223 SG

Just like you masturbating, you do it with a goal to ejaculate.

The girl must know, and like the sensation leading to orgasm first.

After that, try your foreplay, vibrator, cunnilingus, finger, whatever. She now has something to look forward to.

I believe only virgins don't know the sensation?

prozzie SG

Communication is key.