According to reports, roughly 70%
of women don’t reach an orgasm during intercourse. Although that
figure in itself is shocking, it also makes you wonder about how
many women never orgasm at all (i.e., intercourse or not)!
A lot of flack fall on men on why
women don’t experience an orgasm but truth be told, women have a
lot to do about this as well whether they realize it or not.
6 Reasons Why Women DON’T
Climax
There are many reasons why women
don’t reach sexual climax. Some of them maybe men’s faults but a
lot can be because of her too…
Foreplay? What
foreplay?
Foreplay is extremely important.
For women, making love begins in the mind and if you don’t
‘condition’ her mind for sex, then chances are she won’t be
sexually reciprocating in bed too. Furthermore, women really do
need more time than men to reach an orgasm; so foreplay is actually
your way of extending your own sexual stamina.
She’s thinking too
much!
Women are natural multi-taskers.
Unfortunately, they’re so used to thinking and doing several things
at the same time that they find it hard to simply be ‘in the
moment’ during sex. If most men can be very ‘in the zone’ during
sex, women seem to have various thoughts running through their
heads all the time (e.g., home chores that need to be done, kids’
homework, dirty laundry, etc.).
She’s full of…
insecurities.
Women have many body image issues.
While you may adore her, her mind is probably worried about at
least three different things as you undress her: Is the light
revealing any cellulite? Are my ‘love handles’ protruding? Does he
think my breasts are too small/big?
If body image anxiety is not in her
head, then she may be thinking about things such as “I didn’t
shower yet, I hope I smell good… especially down there.”, or “I
didn’t pee. I hope I don’t embarrass myself.”
ALL these thoughts are making her
focus on the wrong things! It’s taking attention away from
sexual pleasure and into sexual insecurities. And when a woman is
in this mode, it’s almost impossible to her focus on reaching her
own climax!
She really doesn’t know her
own body.
There is a certain art form to
making love to a woman’s body. It really does have a lot of
mysterious curves, spots and turns. Sadly, many women don’t indulge
in a lot of ‘self exploration’ when it comes to sex. As such, it’s
hard to guide you on what makes her feel good or which techniques
really turn her on. And really, if she doesn’t know her own body,
how can you be expected to instinctively know what brings her
pleasure, right?
The best thing is… it’s never too
late to learn! Why don’t you BOTH explore her body? Don’t rush
anything and try everything. See what turns her on best and use
that knowledge to make her reach her orgasm. Make it your sexual
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You are not paying
attention!
True, men are not mind-readers.
Unfortunately, many women are not great communicators in bed as
well so we have a little problem here. Compounding this problem is
of course that favorite female bedroom habit of ‘faking orgasms’.
As a result, YOU think that what you’re doing is great when in
reality you may not even be close!
To solve this particular problem,
try to develop a certain ‘sexual code’ between you two. For
instance, a slight squeeze on your arm means “You’re doing great!
Pls. keep doing it!”; while nails on your skin or arm mean “enough
of that!”. You will receive more squeezes, however, if you know
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YOU’re changing ‘techniques’ too fast.
Men like to try different sexual
positions and that’s great but sometimes you may be changing just a
bit too fast. Women need to get accustomed to a certain ‘rhythm’
before sexual pleasure begins to climb. If you keep shifting
positions, she will either (a) never find the position that brings
her an orgasm, (b) lose the sexual pleasure she was experiencing in
the previous position or (c) be so frustrated that even if you go
back to the same position, she may not be that sexually aroused
again.
So keep this in mind: when it comes
to female orgasm it’s not just location, location, location… it’s
also about repetition, repetition, repetition.
Hopefully this list of potential
reasons why your partner is not reaching an orgasm paves the way
for discussion between the two of you. Don’t focus on why she’s not
reaching an orgasm. Instead, focus on what you guys are going to
do, so that she does reach her climax. That’s a more positive
approach and lot more fun too! Learn creative and easy ways to do
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