Well, thank you Grolsch for the helpful feedback. Very much
appreciated. I know I cannot out-argue so many people so I’ll just
make myself clear. I’m not in this relationship solely for sex, I
just want it to be part of the relationship, just like many other
guys out there. There’s nothing more than that. So please stop
posting about stuff like, ‘Oh My God you have no values you
scumbag’. It’s just personal preference and values are vastly
subjective. It may be against your values to have sex in a
relationship, but it isn’t against mine. I want it and it’s my
first relationship so I don’t know what to expect. I was hoping for
some constructive feedback.
Yes, I know there’s many fish out there. That’s why I’m wondering
if I should find someone with similar ‘values’. I don’t need to be
pretentious about my intentions, I hope you respect that.
You asked for comments and that's what you got. It's not about
my values - it's HER values that you are compromising. It's
something you give away only once so you can't make her respect
your wishes (if the roles were reversed she'd respect yours too).
And if that's the only thing you want to break up with her for, she
deserves better.
