I am a married woman in my late 20s.
I am now in my 2nd year of marriage, and lately I find that my
husband prefers to matsurbate rather than have sex with me.
We have sex like for once a week or so, then most of the time I
will catch him masturbating in the middle of the night.
Even when its weekend and we don’t have to work, even when I am
lying next to him, he will choose to masturbate over having sex
with me.
I do not find myself ugly, instead I find myself fairly
attractive and slim.
I take care of myself, I smell good and look good for him.
I feel very unattractive when he does that, I have told him
before, but he still does it after apologizing.
We do not have kids for now, I do not get why he finds me
undesirable anymore.
He used to do it with me a lot, but lately, we only do it at
most once a week.
So guys, can you help to advise me?
Will like to know why would a man want to pass sex with a young
woman and masturbate instead?
I am miserable.
Ask him what he wants. Some people prefer... variety. If the
normal sex you have is boring, maybe he's too shy to lazy to bring
it up to you. What for bring it up if he thinks you won't be
receptive to his fantasies? Might as well DIY mah.
So yups. Maybe you and your husband might share the same
fantasies... do yourself a favour and ask him what he wants. ;)