you want peace. everyone does. but you have avoided problems
that were caused by you. there is a reason why there are bus fans
who flamed you and tolerated you. there were remedies which would
have worked and which now you can still use to rectify the problem,
but you didn't use them. would you rather other bus fans continue
avoiding, tolerating and hating you because of problems that
remained unsolved or unanswered, or using the remedies and then let
those who had avoided, tolerated and hated you start to accept you?
i think that you should consider that first before replying.