Is it really so hard to give a
woman an orgasm? Many say it’s difficult but many men also claim
that it’s very easy… IF you know what to do. So the question is, do
you?
Any health, loving and lasting
relationship counts a great sex life as a key ingredient. And if
you look around you, it’s probably not hard to tell which couples
are truly happy with each other. These are the couples that still
look at each other with lust in their eyes! So what’s
their secret? It’s probably because they are BOTH sexually
satisfied in their relationship.
A lot of people know that women don’t reach an orgasm as easily
or as quickly as men. What many don’t realize is that this does
nothing but build sexual frustration. And sexual frustration
manifests itself in many negative ways in a relationship; until one
day, you both wake up and realize that you no longer have passion
in each other and in your lives.
The good news is it’s really not hard at all to make a woman
reach an orgasm. But you both have to work at it, which, if you
think about it, is part of the fun as well!
How
to Make Her ‘Come’ – A Step-by-Step Guide
You may find this step-by-step guide useful. It is one of the
many tools that Gabrielle Moore, an expert on sex education has
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Step 1
Engage in a lot of foreplay!
Foreplay is very important because it helps her relax her mind and
make her more focused on the lovemaking at hand. It’s also a great
way to bond as many women associate foreplay as a man’s way of
taking time and ensuring sex is not just a physical act but about
intimacy.
Foreplay can start hours or even days in advance and is really
limited only by your sexual imagination. As you keep this ‘sexual
tension’ high, you’ll find that it’s actually easier to bring her
to an orgasm once you do engage in sex.
Step 2
If foreplay is the ‘primer’, oral
sex is the next big step. Many women actually claim that oral sex
is the ONLY way they can reach an orgasm so if you both want it to
be that way, then don’t resist.
When you do go down on her, don’t rush it. Show her that you
really love her by lavishing her genitals with your undivided
attention. Enjoy the journey as much as the destination so to
speak.
At the start, just tease and lick softly and lovingly. Once
she’s focused on that part of her body, increase the tempo. When
you notice that her breathing is getting faster and harder or if
her legs are becoming taut, move your attention to her clitoris.
Tease it by drawing small circles around it with your tongue and
then apply more pressure and lick faster.
If she gives any indication at all that she’s really turned on,
remember this: DON’T change anything. Keep the tempo of what you’re
doing and she’ll reach her orgasm soon enough.
Step 3
If your tongue doesn’t bring her to
an immediate orgasm, don’t despair. Don’t forget that your fingers
can be put to good use too! Use your index finger to ‘trace’ the
outline of her labia. Be sure to touch her gently. This is
guaranteed to electrify her body. After this, place your index and
middle finger together and then draw circles around her
clitoris.
Pay attention to her body (is it in
a pleasured, relaxed state or is it pulled taut like a string?) to
gauge just how turned on she is. Don’t forget to pay attention to
her moans and groans as well.
You can alternate using your tongue and fingers to stimulate her
clitoris and just like what’s advised above, if she indicates
something that’s really turning her on, just keep doing it! To
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Step 4
If clitoral stimulation has not
brought on an orgasm yet, then try G-spot stimulation! Assuming
that she’s already hot and wet, slowly insert your index and middle
finger inside her womanhood, palm up. Once inside, position your
fingers to the “11 o’clock”. Slowly try and locate a small bump or
swelling (like an engorged clitoris). Once you find this spot,
congratulations… you’ve located the elusive G-spot!
Step 5
You can stimulate the G-spot in
many ways. You can tap it with your fingers, draw lazy or frenzied
circles around it, or flick it wildly like a light switch. If you
wish, you can use your thumb to stimulate her clitoris
while stimulating her G-spot. This will surely give her an
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