Lust and Relationship

xavier1979 SG

Dear all, like to find out about your opinion on two issues:

1. Is lust important in a relationship?
2. Can a relationship last without sex?

My answer to the above is (1) Yes and (2) No.

QX179R SG

it all boils down to the self-control of that person..

ChingAlvin SG

(1) Yes (2) No.

The important thing, is the frequency of it.

Viva Voce SG

(1) Yes

(2) Personally, No. But yes it has been done before, it is still being done, and it will continue to be done.

dumbdumb! SG

Dear all, like to find out about your opinion on two issues:

1. Is lust important in a relationship?
2. Can a relationship last without sex?

My answer to the above is (1) Yes and (2) No.

my answer is.. yes to both.

lust to me.. is a desire, it's gonna be hard to be in a relationship if you both don't desire each other. may not be physical desire.. can be companionship etc.

if you don't think of each other subconsciously.. do you really love that person? or maybe you're taking that person for granted.

genetex SG

my answer is.. yes to both.

lust to me.. is a desire, it's gonna be hard to be in a relationship if you both don't desire each other. may not be physical desire.. can be companionship etc.

if you don't think of each other subconsciously.. do you really love that person? or maybe you're taking that person for granted.

Yes to both questions

i agree with dumbdumb that lust is necessary in a relationship. it keeps both parties interested in the r/s. lust is having intense sexual desire and having sex is putting that intense desire into action.

Having said that, i believe sex is not a key factor in relationships. what's important is the companionship and the intellectual connection with the other party. hence, i think r/s can last without sex.

XxYaNxX SG

Yes to both , relationships without sex can last as long with ones with sex. Depends on the person really

FirePig SG

Yes to both , relationships without sex can last as long with ones with sex. Depends on the person really

Depends on the TWO person in the relationship. Girls also have lust okay? (Almost everyone wants to have sex, eventually having babies to continue the family line)

I-like-flings(m) SG

Yes.

And.. what got lust have to do with relationship??? i really dun get it..lust = horny = sex =/= relationship

BrUtUs SG

Dear all, like to find out about your opinion on two issues:

1. Is lust important in a relationship?
2. Can a relationship last without sex?

My answer to the above is (1) Yes and (2) No.

1) yes

2) depends.... a low sex drive couple will be ok without it... but its normal guy n gal will be No...

BrUtUs SG

Yes.

And.. what got lust have to do with relationship??? i really dun get it..lust = horny = sex =/= relationship

wa u reali draw the line.... good equation

dumbdumb! SG

wa u reali draw the line.... good equation

hmm if i elaborate on it..

a good relationship will have elements of lust, depending on the.. level of need of the couple.

but lust do not, cannot, must not define the relationship.

i have a friend who switched like 3 gfs ever since i first knew him. and the relationship always... sorta goes downhill after the sex gets boring.

RedizAlertz SG

Yes.

And.. what got lust have to do with relationship??? i really dun get it..lust = horny = sex =/= relationship

I agree with the above.

Defination of lust : Lust is any intense desire or craving for self gratification and excitement. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lust

In a relationship, it's called Passion. So to ans ur qns :

(1) No

(2) Yes

dumbdumb! SG

I agree with the above.

Defination of lust : Lust is any intense desire or craving for self gratification and excitement. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lust

In a relationship, it's called Passion. So to ans ur qns :

(1) No

(2) Yes

lol it just.. makes it sound politically correct =x

Eridanus SG

No and yes.

Gosu. SG

No and yes. Relationships tend to go downhill rather than uphill after sex. Like a sense of gratifaction or achievement for guys, have to move on to "another goal"

SBS7484P SG

no to both.

to lust is usually to desire of sex with the other party, promicuous sia.

second is no from me, cos a healthy relationship works out on love and attraction btw both parties, not working out thru always having sex.