Hi,
if you strongly believe that a man who is married does not think
of having sex with another woman , convince me why you so strongly
think so.
else,
how does a married man satisfy his urges ?
control the mind until he dies?
can a man really be satisfied with just 1 woman , sexually from
the time he is married till he can stand no more?
and if you cannot convince yourself that a man can be sexually
satisfied with just 1 woman, what do you think is the meaning of
being a faithful spouse?
having said above, do not be mistaken that i do not believe that
rare people do exist.
Eh Yellow, what makes you think married women don't feel the
urge to mate with another partner? 
My take is, once you're married and you've decided on monogamy,
then it's ok to think. Not ok to act upon those thoughts.
In our time, full of moral greys, some couples think it's
alright to swing and maintain an open sexual relationship.
Me thinks TS has never really been in a relationship close to
the stage of marriage, hence all his odd fitting queries. Finish
sewing your oats first then think about the one partner for life
stage lah.
We women have this saying, men who sleep around in their younger
days tend not to stray in their later years. Vice versa.