one, i didnt mean that as a rebut. was merely seeking opinions
on whether i am really being a prude in this modern society.
two, it wud be offending if i didnt explain that i wasnt
particularly friendly to a malaysian guy cos it wud make me seem
like i have a prejudice against them for their nationality, when in
truth, i am more cautious of foreign guys for the reason i stated
in the previous post.