i agree w wat NeverSayGoodBye n Herzog_Zwei said. they sum up most
of what i know/feel.
most rebounds happens cos the person is looking for a
replacement..or biologically, to be able to get e stimulus to keep
the 'being in love' feeling. some pple typically fall in and out of
love v quickly cos they cant do without being in a r.s
yes it can happen to any one....
read somewhere that its more susceptible to guys..(well, no hard
evidence though guys- its just how the different gender wld do to
handle a break up)
feelings are hard to measure...for how long? depends on how hard u
fall on the person. some pple i know, do stay together as a couple
for more than a yr although it was v obvious that either one of e
party doesnt love e other at all.... others, rebounds doesnt take
too long to see the end of the r.s
nv been on a rebound before..but i guess, if v quickly, you forget
about ur ex becos of the existence of the present rebound..then
maybe u r..
there are no hard n fast rules on how to prevent.
its knowing wat you really want at the end of the day.
e.g if you know u are feeling v bad now due to the break up, and
going for the next best alternative doesnt solve the problem y go
for it?
again there is no absolute ans to issit good or bad.
who knows, you might meet your soul partner in a rebound?
but you cld also be on yr way to another heartbreaking
moment?
how much time did you give yrself to know e 'new' person
better?
why waste your precious time and effort on e person who is a 'fake'
bf/gf, whereby you can use it for a more fulfilling life?
what will your friends, family think about you?
these things will affect ur self confidence and esteem to a certain
extent isnt it?
well...
jus something that i believe in: I just wanna be happy in
life.
as long as i'm happy, safe and know what i really want, i dun see
anything wrong in going for a rebound....for maybe, he's really the
one.
