she is far more precious to me than any guy. i know i will let
her have the guy if she also like the same guy i like. but i also
know (and hope) that she treasures me as much as i do to ensure
that the incident will not affect our friendship in anyway.
i have few i call my best friends. and she..... i cannot lose.

so i think brokenluv should evaluate who is more important to him
right now, and make the decision of whether to go for the girl or
not from there. do you like that girl so much that you wouldnt mind
destroying a precious friendship? if you do, then by all means, go
for the girl, since that is your heart's conviction. if not, stick
by your friend.