the mysterious sex

last SG · 2007-05-08T19:10:45+00:00

i can't give u an "in general" answer.. but i like to watch them.. i even watch disney channel, nickelodeon (jimmy neutron, spongebob), etc.

LazerLordz SG

Just don't frown too much, else the next time I wander into your area, I'll tag the first "chow bin" person as you. Laughing Twisted Evil

ChoCoChips SG

one question, is it alright to touch girls?

edit: sry ah got distracted by my pizza Embarassed

starblue SG

ah.. soka... correct me if i'm wrong. but are you saying that there will be times when a guy will feel tired about putting in effort to figure out what is wrong with and what their gal is really thinking??

but if you really love the gal, will you also feel that way, knowing that if you display that attitude things will SURELY go further downhill??

in a gal's pov, if a guy shows that he is getting tired of caring about her feelings, then the r/s really will seem bleak.

starblue SG

i dun frown. i just dun smile. so my face will be like this Neutral

Laughing

brokenluv SG

1) its hard for me to find tt out

2) sms hard to tell...

3) due to i and ii

starblue SG

depends on the gal. but to tell if THAT gal is not ok with touches, see the following.

does she voice it out that she doesnt like it? (man, this one the most obvious one lah)

does she frown when you touch?

does she try to move away?

does she "brush off" the part that you touched?

generally, does she look like she is tolerating that touch (if you keep it there for some time)

bladez87 SG

ok this sounds stupid but if she doesnt wanna go out together, or keep pushing the date later, or doesnt reply to msgs, it is kinda obvious she not interested right?

LazerLordz SG

Laughing

brokenluv SG

oops

starblue SG

sms is really hard to tell... you have to know this. that people can say things more freely in print then in person. for instance, i can say 'i like you" to a fellow forumer ( Embarassed ) online, but i will never say the same thing to the face.

also, words in sms (or any cyberspace) can mean different things. saying "i like you" to a forumer does not mean the same thing as saying that face to face.

so for that, i dun think you should read too much into it. Wink try to see if you can elicit a similar comment when face to face. and watch her body language when she says it. Wink

ChoCoChips SG

hmmm.. so u muz still touch lo, and see the reaction? very risky Laughing

nxt question,

got 1 guy hor, he nvr touched a girl before leh, other than play games or anything. hui bu hui hen guai?

starblue SG

yessssssssssssssssssssssss

move on to greener pastures... Wink

starblue SG

Embarassed

but i see normal people also dun smile all the way one mah. how come only i look fierce and they look just normal. Mad

ChoCoChips SG

i dun smile ish look like Mad one. worse than u leh Laughing

starblue SG

kekeke.... if i know a guy is like that (he doesnt touch just anyone), and he touches me, then i'd think he is at least interested in me. so unless you want the gal to "know" you like her, dun touch.

contrary to popular believe, gals are also very easily misled by touches also. Wink

bladez87 SG

o ya. how to show a girl you are sincere? would sincerity actually make her change her mind?

LazerLordz SG

I wish I knew. *chuckles* Very Happy

starblue SG

Laughing then you have to undo the Mad to upgrade to Neutral loh.

Gackt247 SG

Not really, if a relationship matures, all the exciting luvvy-dovvy stuff will gradually reduce, replaced with more practical day-to-day things.

I mean, if one is gonna observe his/her own parents, courtship days confirm colourful la. But donkey yrs later, things will become mundane mah. Dad complaining how come dinner not served yet. Mum nagging why leave a mess in the toilet. yada yada.. but tt doesnt mean they still dun love n care for each other all these yrs mah.

I'm also a human being wat. Have feelings, mood and opinions wat. Just bcoz u like to something to be done this way or wat me to do something den I've to always to agree? Wat's more if it's boliao things. To ladies in general, eh, I'm a fren, bf and son leh, not slave. I'm not born to please u. When i genuinely please u is bcoz i care for u. But not everyday is sunday.

brokenluv SG

yeah i look abit antisocial and dao on d outside d.. but when i smile n open up its a different story

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