why must beware of lurkers??? cool also used to do that a lot
mah. 
rainee jie, i wanna ask you hor.... (in tune with the thread topic
lah....)
if you are me (you know, the shy, not-good-with-expressing-myself
kinda gal), how would you go about building a friendship (and maybe
even rs) with a guy who catches your eye, say, in a tutorial
class?