Originally posted by Bontakun:
[b]No need to "rather be this or that".
We are born with the equipments into this world, we accept it and
live with it AND live life to the fullest just by being ourselves
in this form.
Coz even if we "wanna be this or that", UNLESS you intend to have
gender overhaul... I think its redundant to think and wish we
rather be "this or that".
OF COZ thinking of "being this or that" DO have some interesting
stuffs. This way we can understand both genders more and analyse
more things into it and apply it and benefit both ourselves and
others.
Like "Why guys are like this or that" or "Why girls act this or
that", these questions that pop up into our minds... If we can just
think about it and using scenario plots to imagine possible
situations and then share our thoughts with some close friends
(guys AND girls), then we learn more.
Can catch? 
[/b]
So botak accept being an "it"?
