orh so u r interested to get her to become more than ur close
fren la? 
hmm, dun get too close to a girl? As in, dun let her come and find
you only when she has problems and want a listening ear, cos after
a while she will start to see u as a confidant and best fren
instead as a potential bf material. Cos once she sees u as a fren,
it is very hard to cross the bridge to become her bf...not
impossible la, but still...