As above, wanna hear your view 
For me, it's communication and how to make it last. How to handle
the real challenges in a r/s after the so-called "honeymoon
period". How to change and adapt, and yet still be able to retain
your own personality.
Many couples think they are made for each other during the initial
stage of a r/s. But a couple that is still able to feel this way
after a long time of being together can be assured that the love
they have for each other is real.
Have wanted to say this for a long time...but guess that now I no
longer have a blog, I will write down my thoughts here. 