about forgiving

starblue SG

my mum once said to me, "in this world, there is nothing you cannot forgive."
but i am skeptical.

what kind of thing(s), when done to you by your friends/family, can you never forgive?? as in REALLY will NEVER be able to forgive, no matter how much time has past.

boredandsleepy SG

yes i can be sure of 1 thing that a girl will nvr be able to forgive and that is the own father raping her at a young age. can u forgive that if it happened to u?

BadzMaro SG

sometimes u cannot forgive now... but u will learn to forgive later. By not forgiven will give urself that unnessecery burden , the pain and the feeling that u always remember especially the pain caused. The difference with people that can forgive n ppl that will never forget is veyr different lo.

starblue SG

Rolling Eyes maro you're grostequely out of point. answer to the qn.

BadzMaro SG

rape my @ss or sell me off to cambodia.

I used to never forgive my parents for sending me off to NZ to survive on myself man! I swear i was thinking of coming back n giving them a piece of my fists. h he

thats family la..

but for friends... 1 backstab.. n forever i will NEVER NEVER!!! forgive... like how i was sent to the SLAMMERS because of that Judas! until today.. if i see him.. i will break him.

browniebaobao SG

cannot forgive my ex.

i duno...

forgiven him once.. and later i discovered some things..

that made me so hard to forgive..

coz i feel deceived.

hisoka SG

if you live long enuff and meet enuff things everything can be forgiven. becuase after 1000 years and countless things you have endured, anything would be insignificant Cool

BadzMaro SG

like that confirm they will not forgive...

coz reaching thier 1/10 of the 1000 yr limit... i am sure they alreayd 6 feet underground liaw

boredandsleepy SG

the thing is are u REALLY able to live that long? the average lifespan of singaporeans tend to be at the age of 70-80. and i bet there still will be some things that u cant forgive by this age.

the.owl SG

I forgive, but I NEVER forget.

hisoka SG

the rationale is based on possibility of living so long which means you can forgive anything if the conditions are right.

of course the 1k years is an exageration, but just pointing out that something that seems unforgiving and super offensive now may not seem that bad after a period of time. not to mention exonerating conditions liek the person making up for it or your social conditioning being changed

BadzMaro SG

Actually we can live past 1000 de... our bodies and our mind LIMIT ourselves. U must be able to trancend beyond this thoughts.. the body n mind as one n u will outlive those that limit u~

boredandsleepy SG

take my 1st post in this tread for an example.

are u able to forgive ur own dad if that happened to u?

its just an example and nth of that sort happened to me Very Happy

BadzMaro SG

ur example is irrelevant and has no sunstantial facts in what u are saying. The question is.. Will u Forgive ur dad if he @ss raped u... WILL U ?

boredandsleepy SG

i would have his dick chopped into pieces and condemn him from my life if that really happened to me. in this kind of situation, forgive is not found in my dictionary.

hisoka SG

what if you live in a society where its a norm to rape your children? will you be able to forgive him then? Very Happy

BadzMaro SG

o.k.. but at least he left ur virginity ma.. so its not AS bad as raping u right ? at least its in the @ss.. so does it count as lesser damage ?

boredandsleepy SG

Very Happy i definately would not like that to happen.

BadzMaro SG

u think this is like the Solomons Island ar.. Laughing

boredandsleepy SG

hisoka, y not u come back to reality of what this world is now, and think if u were @ss raped by ur father, would u forgive him?