to answer the questions first:
1) pretty much.
2) will not starve myself
3) yes
4) i'm working on it
5) nope
6) never did before so dunno. but i guess can get used to it.
7) nope
erm... does this matter, really?
9) same as above
10) yes (i can certainly save)
11) yes
12) take care of myself as always loh.
alright, so based on that is it alright for me to move out?
and oh, just to clarify. i am not thinking of moving out
immediately. in fact, i plan to do so only after i graduate (both
from uni and moe training). so that will be in 3 years' time. i
told my mum already, so she got 3 years to get used to that
idea.
and i plan to start living very independently (as in doing all the
chores, cooking regularly etc) when i am in moe training, to
prepare myself for a life without my mum to do those things for
me.
also, i gave myself this 3 years to see if anything could change in
the family, and i will only move out if things remain the same, or
gets worse. in that way, i know i didnt rush into this, and i
cannot be accused of being rash and infilial or wadever
stuff.
i appreciate all the opinions you guys have given so far. at least
nw i have an idea of what to expect. (the idea still feels
daunting. it's almost like getting married. o.O) please feel free
to contribute more. 
