10 steps to enjoying each other better...
1. Be realistic about each other.
Don't try to turn ur partner into something he or she is not. Let's
face it, guys-there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even
she has had her implants removed! Give ur gal a break and
understand that her physical appearance is NOT going to change
overnite with the help of a few facials ! or treat ments. And
ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so u're gonna have to do
with what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what u
are. There is more to ur partner than what meets the eye.
2. Always talk things out.
Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving
issues, but u know what? This works with the gals. Don't make
assumptions about each other's feelings. Learn to xpress urself
better so that ur partner undrstands what u're angry about, or hurt
about, or even happy about! When u stop talking to each other from
the heart, it's the beginning of the end.
3. Do stuff together.
Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or involve
urselves in some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or
are interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies
together, or jus strolling hand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch
soccor with him once in a while though the green patch on TV puts u
to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for
another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out
with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If u're
spending more time with ur friends rather than with ur partner,
it's a warning sign that u're drifting apart!!!
4. Meet each other halfway.
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the "The_Rock"
print, u shouldn't kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur
room tidy. There's gotta be a little giving and taking in a
relationship, so learn to meet each other halfway.
5.Show ur love
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and then, even if u
have been together for 5years. It's wonderful to continue showing
someone that u care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint
him a Valentine's Day card. Knit him mini-socks he can't wear (
like for decoration purposes => ), buy him a packet of milk for
breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him...so he knows u can still
be romantic and loving despite having been together for quite a
while.
