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last SG · 2006-04-05T20:40:05+00:00

I no money buy... so I used those. Very limited, but bo pian. Now Microsoft gives out free domain names, but take very long to just to confirm you are using...

rainee SG

Eh, since when I said them lousy dats why never chose them? Rolling Eyes

hisoka SG

implied lah. if they are not lousy you would have choosen them lor.

if you never choose them means you think they not good enough. not good enuff = lousy lor

rainee SG

eh pls lor.

If I dun choose them, it can mean other things. It means I just do not have chemistry with them, I do not feel anything for them...it doesn't necessarily mean they are lousy, it just means they are not the one for me..

Now wich part of that you do not understand? Rolling Eyes

hisoka SG

not the one for you means they are too lousy and not up to your standards lor.

no chemistry with you means that the person is too lousy, cant even to have chemistry with you. Laughing

rainee SG

are you trying to pick a fight with me? Mad

stop trying to make the rest seems like victim lor...when you try out this kinda thing, how many ppl can win in the end right? at least accept it graciously and move on...then they will at least win respect in my eyes.

StarPuppy SG

eh hisoka..i dun understand what u mean if rainee didn't choose them means they lousy..its like u saying rainee have no right to choose who she likes

NekoRin SG

morning everyone

hisoka SG

she has all the right in the world to do so. i'm just pointing out that what shes doing hurts others and passes judgement on them too.

for example when you choose a winner of a competition. in essence you are saying that you think/feel the rest are lousy in comparison which is why he/she/it is the winner

NekoRin SG

This is so rude = =
Not chosen doesn't mean = not good enuff Neutral
In chinese they often say "pei bu shang" here means "don't match" it doesn't implies that one party hiam the other as lousy wor Confused Mad

rainee SG

pls lor...

what hurt others? scared to be hurt dun get into this in the first place. and since when i pass judgement on others?

and in every competition there is a winner and there will be someone who doesn't get that title. what's so weird abt dat? Rolling Eyes

hisoka SG

Laughing i'm such a nice person, why would i pick fights with you? Cool

hey they are victims in a sense lah. yes not many pple can win, but that still doesn't make the rest not being steppign stones or losers to the winner.

StarPuppy SG

look..face it..theres bound to be some losers in a competiton..

its clearly if u can't bear to lose in a competiton, then dun join...

if the person himself/herslef thinks that the judge thinks hes/she is lousy lousy..then i say that person shouldn't be in the competion..he/she has no pride in wat he/she has done...

rainee SG

Do you know what's the meaning of being gracious or sporting?

If you think this way, pls stop joining competitions for the sake of yourself and others Cool

hisoka SG

you made a choice if thats not judgement what is??

i also never say they are scared to be hurt(okk maybe they are or maybe they would just hope not to be).

i also never say got winner and losers is weird did i??

neko: if you find that some one pei bu shang ni or not suitable it means you find the person lousy according to your standards which is why pei bu shang

NekoRin SG

Hmm from what I see from the past pages, I don't see Rainee doing hurt to others and passes judgement Neutral

Relationship isn't about winning or losing. It's more of whether both parties match each other.

rainee SG

making a choice is something that will happen sooner or later. I am not passing any judgement as in saying they are bad since I didn't choose them or anything. I did not say that ever, so stop putting words into my mouth.

StarPuppy SG

look..its still the mindset...let me ask u...would a good loser feel that way?

seriously..hisoka..ur mindeset is totally wrong..

yes in a way, you are right but u seem to put that mindset on every guy on earth

hisoka SG

yeah true if you can't bear to lose then dun join. however life is not as simple you are forced to join(at least for somethings) like it or not.

hey a person can have pride in what he or she is doing, whether he thinks the judge thinks hes lousy is immaterial in this respect

StarPuppy SG

even you are forced into something..do your best and take pride in it..whats so hard of not taking pride in your owrk?

would u thus say that every work u done in school or in the working life until now is never place with best effort?

Rolling Eyes

NekoRin SG

how true
Don't ever deem yourself as lousy, as it often or not shows yourself lacking in confidence

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