rainee SG try to give him strong hints but if u confess, then it makes him feel like you are hunting him down instead?
rainee SG but tell liao then he thinks like I am trying to trap him...so it kinda disrupts the cycle? Cos I tot the guys like to do the chasing and all that?
rainee SG haiz, how do you know if the one you confess to is one of those who likes being hunted? What if he is one of those who likes to do the chasing instead?
alfagal SG aiyah pls lar..u make me sound like some predator like tat... jus say tell him how i feel nia ma..also nv chase...if he doesnt reciprocate then its okie lor...i'm cool..
the Bear SG not all.. coz each person has their own characteristics... if someone i liked chased me before i figured out my heart and started to chase her, it would be wonderful, and i won't mind at all... i'd be easily "caught" then
the Bear SG yeah.. and if he goes.. "wow.. hmm.. c'mon.. let's talk about this over coffee and cake.. " isn't that wonderful?
rainee SG haha no la... i did tell the guy I liked that I like him as well...but never did any chasing after he said he only sees me as fren
rainee SG yea, if that person likes you back it wud be wonderful. if not, it will be hell of an embarassment. i have gone thru it before, dun tink i wan to go thru it again...too traumatizing
the Bear SG we live in a world where equality is written into the law... well, there is an old saying "Faint heart never won fair lady" i think the gender reverse would be true too
rainee SG Well...it is alright, cos now it is the past...and I am already with my ai ai now, so hopefully I don't have to go through the process of confessing to guys again...
rainee SG now i don't have to go thru that ever again reminds me of a line in the movie, When harry met sally: "Thank goodness we don't have to be out there ever again."
rainee SG ah...I finally found out how to save a video from YouTube... this rocks! after my exam tomolo i m going to go on a video saving frenzy