SGpork SG i cant comfrim...if they are tgt.. i am trying to observe..n find a chance to ask or something.. its really confusing..there is 1 day..we( my fren n her fren ) were outside partying..then this guy call her...( i know him also ..use to be my senior) then...she just pick up..she kinda scold that guy..n bye..that was..2 weeks ago... but yesterday...happen to talk to her fren..(good fren of hers..i think she also dontknow i like her) say..she went party with him.. as i say...im working at the same place with her.. i also nv see him send her..to work/home before.. so i dontknow if..they are still tgt..another thing is..that guy is older than me..so maybe hes doing NS ..thats why.. dontknow...its confusing..
mystiv SG for me, i dont really care about fate, whether i control it or not 'fate' doesnt stop me from doing what i want
rainee SG Well, in this case, who else can Ihurt? The only one who was hurt by my feeling for my ex crush was Emperor last time, and now that we are apart, there is no more link liao. Hopefully he can find another girl who can love him more ba.
BadzMaro SG sieze the opportunity.. when u see somethnig like that happen.. its time to move in.. to be the one there for her.. n u sabo him.. its all fair man.. u want her or not that is the question. If u want.. are u willing to do what it takes!
ndmmxiaomayi SG Cannot always give in. Do what you think is right. You may hurt them, but at least you don't hurt yourself. You may feel guilty, but if it teaches them a life lesson, it's a good deed. It's very hard to balance both.
rainee SG cos sometimes I feel powerless...to control certain things in life... like my path with my ex crush always cross...he is always so near, yet so far...and even if i want him, i cant have him...it is always too late...it is either i am already with someone else or he just cannot find enough feeling for me... sigh...
ndmmxiaomayi SG Well, I don't know about both of you. You try to recall back and think deeper. Emperor is obvious. He's after all your crush. Recall your own relationship and perhaps further than that relationship and you will know.
SGpork SG yes..right now we are still frens.but not close fren.. but she is werid..like i post above..she n that guy..what relationship i dontknow. but sometimes when i meet her or saw her..i notice.. for no reason..she will stare/look at me then...quite a few times we went out tgt..my frens n her frens...we all ..all from same sec sch ma.. i was sitting there...she was sitting beside but not so far..then she will just come closer..herself..then sometimes..close till her arm or body actually..touches mine.. PS: she is not like those teasing kinda girl...nor she a choingster or what so i kinda stunt..no idea...
rainee SG actually it is so much easier to be guys in this case...can always go and pursue the girl until she gives in...and girls usually give in if the guy is persistant enuff... but for my case, if i were to go pursue...wun result in anything..
rainee SG i try not to give in always oso la...trying to be more assertive and learning to say no... but there are some ppl in my life...i just have soft spots for these ppl...so when they ask me to help them, i will go all out...even if it hurts me...
