yea I know...I too nice oledi...cos I tot I can never be with
him...so I decided to help him find his happiness...even helped him
called that girl...
then recently he told me, at that time, he actually got a bit of
feelings for me, but cos I am always helping him go after another
girl, he decided to treat me as a sister and a fren only 
in the end, the girl and him never ended up together, and i also
never get to be with him...such is Fate...