those who find it hard to forgive, cannot understand or trust
others to forgive so easily that even before an apology is offered,
the wrong is forgiven..
unable to reconcile that with their own pettiness, they figure the
other person hasn't forgiven.. and is bearing a grudge... and is
lying...
the seed of doubt is sown.. by the one who has done wrong...
ultimately, it festers into suspicion and hatred.. and the one who
has been patient and forgiving is hurt, again..
some people can never believe that forgiveness is offered freely,
even without asking..
alas...
