how to treat them well when they called me at 7am, woke me up,
woke my roomie up (which will cause me to get into trouble with my
roomie later), and demand me to work their shifts for them? And if
I say no because I am tired, they will sound as if I am obliged to
work the shift for them?
There was once I was told I was too nice to people, at the expense
of my ownself. So now, I would like to know how to say no when I
really mean that. I can't be saying yes all the time, yes, that
would make me the Miss Nice Girl or whatever you wanna call it, but
would I be truly happy?