starblue SG i have talked to mum about it. but she says its not that bad yet. and besides, she will not do it. she is a traditional lady.
the Bear SG i don't believe in bashing.. i believe in constructive criticism... evangelism through Bible-bashing, doesn't work... live your life right, just and good, and people will come to you.. and of their own free will, they will learn... something which was "discussed" to hell and back in a religious forum many times.. guess what? i was bashed for it i still stand by it.. religion is personal.. i cannot force you to have faith in what you do not believe.. i can only live my life and inspire others.. and if they come of their own free will, then good i look at it as God's Blessings what do you think?
rainee SG cos it is written in the Bible that a marriage cannot be unequally yoked or something like that...
rainee SG not just by chc la, it is practised by Christians worldwide...even my frens here know what I am talking about when I told them about this problem of mine..
starblue SG yes rainee jie. i agree 100%. my bro also. that is why we have been questioning. but the workers and pastors always gives us the standard answers that we already know from 16 years of sunday school and doctrine class.... heck, i even can answer my questions in that MODEL answer way. but it is precisely those that i am questioning. and they will never tackle those. everytime they dun ahve an answer, they will pass it off as we are deluded by the devil and losing our faith and going to hell.
Othello_Red SG it is that bad, from how you put it. she's just trying to trick herself into thinking it isn't. from the looks of it, there will come a day when it will. there is only so much someone can take.
rainee SG of cos it is not as simple la...but sometimes u still need to learn how to break free from their control if it is hurting u too much...
Othello_Red SG the single greatest enemy of truth is blind belief in authority.... Albert Einstein...
starblue SG wad can i do? the decision is hers. heck, my brothers are on the same line as i am about this.
CoolMyth SG Indeed. To starblue, you don't really wanna wait for something really bad to happen before taking action, do you?
mystiv SG true. ironic thing is some people cant accept the fact that different people think differently.