Originally posted by rainee:
well, I dun really show my emotions to the people around me here
now...cos I feel like they dun really understand me, and I cant
really trust them after I saw what they have done to others
(backstabbing and talking behind their back, revealing secrets,
etc)...I only show it to my ai ai most of the time...and the ppl
here, once I show the darker side of my emotions, I notice they
will run away or just stop talking or try to change topic...like
they want to see me happy rather than sad...so dats y now I just
let them see this part of me, even tho most of the time it is just
pretense...
I can take my own stand la, but sumtimes I do get influenced,
depending on the issue. If it is sth I have already felt strongly
abt, I will have my own opinion abt it and stick to it. Tho I might
not voice it out la...
Erm, I am more quiet and withdrawn than dramatic I think...I take
it that you mean dramatic as over-reacting?
Yeah... something like that... you'd probably have been
suppressed from outside... If they can't accept you for who you
are, you should not change your personality to suit them...
Try to be yourself, and if they start to avoid you for what they
think its best for them, then they are unworthy to be called
friends, but if they do that for the betterment of you, then you
should reflect on how your real personality affects others around
you... so far, I think it is the former...
