It's very common for forumites to flame and talk bad about each
other (though they may just mean it jokingly to have some fun), but
I believe that there are people who cannot take the joke
seriously.
I do urge the forumites at times not to take certain issue so
seriously, otherwise, havoc will certainly be on the prowl, and it
would be hard to stop then... Forums are a place for discussion,
relaxation, fun and acceptable humour, making online friends just
like making friends outside.
There may be people who may not abide by the rules, this, the
moderators can solve the problem by editing their posts which they
seem unfit for the forum or close or delete the thread which they
feel that verbal abuse may threaten the 'harmony' of both the
parties...
Just for the sake of everyone to stay in harmony, let's just all be
good people 
