anhydrouscoppersulphate SG me hmm waiting for this wonderful lady for 5 yrs now. we seem not destined for each other. we are still good friends and we often ask each other out like an outing but its not i unfree or she unfree. its not that i nvr say out i love u to her. i did. but we were young that time. so we dismissed this thought. she said she’d love me too that time. but in the end we couldnt get the right time opportunity. for now i dont know
rainee SG then dun blame her if you wait 10 years and she never respond Sometimes we need to know when to give up
anhydrouscoppersulphate SG im not the guy who lets go easily. relationships should be treated equally impt
starblue SG letting go after 5 years of waiting isnt wad i will call "easily" u need to give yourself a chance to see the forest. you're just so engrossed in tending to that particular tree, you are not even breathing for yourself anymore...
rainee SG Then ask her and get it over and done with. If she loves you back, then go into a r/s with her. If she says no, then learn to let go and wait for the right girl to appear in your life.
rainee SG Friendship is also a kind of relationship...but I guess yea, it is not a romantic relationship to begin with. But sometimes when we have our eyes fixated on just one person, it is rather hard to even imagine looking beyond him/her.
starblue SG it's awful to have to wait for someone... that's why i always dun like the thought of making another person wait for me... ah.. but heck... he wanna wait then let him wait loh... some things only time will tell. maybe during the waiting he will have given up half way also shuo bi ding. anyway, to wait or not to wait depends solely on the individual loh... you will figure out when to stop waiting. i hope...
The Emperor SG Hmm... sometimes finding isn't a good idea after all. you'll get tired and worn out making a fool out of urself. Waiting isn't a good idea also. I think the only thing to do is enjoy life lor...