was in a r.s of close to 3.5 yrs, and it only came to a state
where i meant too much to him...it was no longer being in love w
someone..he was totally obsessed and possessive over me..
how bad? it was till e state where even when its jus 1.5yrs into
our r.s, he wans to get married w me, and will jus do anything to
contain me in his five fingers...inc being a control freak, using
sacarsm, and to have e last say in watever i do..even going to get
my hair dyed or not.. 
he was jus too afraid to lose me..romantic as it may seems...
but it jus only shows how high n insecure he is feeling. its all a
false hope to him..thru so many yrs..did i see e ugly side of
him..self-centered, selfish and childish...ironic isnt it? (tatz
love to him)....there's no room to breathe...
no doubt, he dotes on me a whole lots...somehow, jus a feeling tat
he does feel bad in being so hard to me..and thatz e only way to
make up to me...
to me, being honest, open and trustful is most impt constitute in a
r.s
however, i have no regrets knowing him, being together w him and
breaking up w him...cos i learnt a whole lot...pple do grow up dont
they? only regreted hurting his feelings...(i was e one who
initiated e break up)
too bad, he doenst wanna keep in contact w me anymore..i have made
it v clear tat we cld still b friends...oh well...in fact many of
my friends curse him as he got attached quickly 4mths after...in
which is shortly after my b.d, where he still waited for 12MN sharp
to sms me his wishes...anyway, all e best to him, always...
My blessing to all couples: stay happy, loving and caring to each
other always
To all singles: i m sure e right one will come about...somewhere
somehow..jus believe in love.. 
