rainee SG Dun just settle...but if you find someone like dat, ask yourself if you can give him a chance? Then maybe you will grow to love him just as much?
starblue SG no lah... the last guy in my life just made me tired of loving... it's not to say of cos that i will get into a r/s with someone i dun love at all. but you get the point. that is why sometimes i feel it isnt fair for the guy. so ultimately i dun think i will get into a r/s, for as long as i have this mentality.. haha.. it is a damned vicious cycle.
^HaRu^ SG tell u ar.. very xin ku one.. i've experienced it both ways.. the girl loving me more than i loved her.. me loving the girl more than she loved me.. it's just so.. xin ku.. so i reckon the best solution.. will b to love each other just as much.. as rainee said..
starblue SG why if i love the guy less than he loves me i will be very xin ku??? the only way that will happen is i will be xin ku cos i see he love me until very xin ku... haha... ok nvm, i also dunno wad i blabbering about..
^HaRu^ SG true.. but it takes effort to make it equal.. sadly lotsa ppl indulge in the fact tt they rather have a partner who love them more than they loved their partner..
starblue SG u people can dun xiang wai not??? i mean the affair of loving someone lah.. kaoz... notice the two people who asked that question are guys... what is wrong with the Y chromosome??? anyway, i just feel in general, liking someone is a tiring affair. it's tiring to have this person who can affect your moods with every little thing he does.... i mean in the beginning it feels so good to have someone to think of, someone to hold etc. but it always have a toll on me... wad is my problem??
Statice_dream SG yeah lor... actually, nothing is ever divide equally.. no two things are exactly the same.. just think about it.. so its quite impossible to have two persons love each other as much. But surely got two people love each other alot.. thats wat more important right. and bluey.. you got over it at least.. good for you! 3 yrs may be long but its over le. embrace the future and i'm sure you'll find someone better soon enuff.
rainee SG Haha I rarely thought abt him nowadays, plus he has also disappeared until dunno go where oledi...but there are things dat will remind me of him...i.e just certain words, certain songs, etc...
starblue SG i'm just glad THAT was over... you have no idea how it disturbed the equilibrium of my emotions... somehow it always happens... whenever i care more about a person, then wadever he/she does will affect me a lot. that's why i dun like.
