i wonder why

RaTtY81 SG

good ah more choices Mr. Green

hopy SG

sometmes the reason lies within urself.. fr wat i know, gal tend to make better pals when it comes to talking xi shi.. the fact tt u dun hv much gal frds, does it mean tt u need to do some reflection on ur side?

Simple_Bear SG

Tt means I am quite a balanced bear both mentally and emotionally...

Mr. Green

TooFree SG

Sorry.

hisoka SG

i also wonder why i dun have many girl friends..........wish i had more Mr. Green

silv3rgal SG

Be it a guy or a gal.. as long they are friends and nothing more than that… maybe you can try to see them equally? But having great friends rules over everything….irrespective of gender…..

starblue SG

emperor... let me clarify... when i heard from my guy friends that they find they can relate to me, like i was one of their guy buddies, i was super Shocked . so not surprisingly, i got rather worried, and consulted my girl friends whether i am tomboyish to them... and... they all were like Shocked cos they say there can never be a more girly girl than me... and i was double Shocked Shocked lolz... i didn't know what to make of it. to the guys, i'm like a guy buddy. to the girls, i'm a 100% gal friend... Rolling Eyes so i dun think i have that er... masculine tendency...

and dun get me wrong... i have super close girl friends. we enjoy each other's company, we go out together, chat about the heavens and the earth. talk about our crushes and other silly stuff.. occasionally we help each other out where matters of the heart are concerned... i can talk about xin shi as well as any other girl (but i can only talk to some guys, and not to these gals, cos i tend to open up more to guys)

the only thing is.. i tend to be able to make friends much easily with guys thaen with girls... it's like so far i only have 5 girl friends whom i can talk my heart out to... i meet new girl "friends", i take much more effort to relate to them. but there are more guys whom i seem to be able to establish friendships with, and with more ease...

why?

foxwalk SG

guys are more easy going and less pettry (in general)

foxwalk SG

androgeny is a good thing you can never have too much of.

Gackt247 SG

Starblue.. from wat u have shared with us, i dont think there's much to be concerned abt. I mean how many buddy gal frens do u want? Kinda mass-produce things n dilute the real meaning of a BEST FRIeND. Isnt able to communicate effectively with both sexes ideal. Isnt having good people relations with both gender a good n useful thing. I think it's not a course for concern but rather something u should be glad abt. Wink

starblue SG

ahem... actually i didnt want to say the real reason why i am concerned lah... but hor.. think i should say it..

see, if i am always more open and relate better to guys, then most likely in times of despair, i will confide in a guy friend. but!!! if next time i got a bf, and there are somethings you dun tell bfs right? then i feel like going to a guy, will it sabotage my r/s??

DriftingGuy SG

if your bf doesnt trust you enough to have guy best friends then you should know the answer liao

Simple_Bear SG

Wat if the bf is the kind of super sensitive and jealous type of guy...

Mr. Green

The Emperor SG

hmm.. u mentioned that u open up to guys easier than some of those girls. perhaps, it's a matter of who can be trusted to keep ur "secrets". in a way that, the guy frens u have are reliable and don't gossip as much?

other than that, i'm not sure liao. maybe it's the way u communicate and ur style of communication.

CoolMyth SG

Maybe it's the pheromones? Laughing

Gackt247 SG

That, i agree. Yep.. there's nothing wrong with having good pals of the opp. gender. Personally, i dun see why i should discard my close friendship with my female friends juz bcoz my gf is jealous.

Gackt247 SG

It's not true guys dun gossip. N it's neither ENTIRELY true tt girls like to disclose secrets. But wat's wrong being able to communicate with pple.

starblue SG

Rolling Eyes pheronmones interfer with er.. proper verbal communication between the sexes.. so i dun think it's that. Laughing

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