well, it depends on wat the prob is..
can still rem my first r/s was ard your age.. OMG!! am i dat old
already?! 
at dat time, it seemed like a big deal then that the r/s ended
lah.. but looking back, it's just one small part of your life...
and then i start to wonder whether i over-reacted then, or why i
was so childish.. i suppose it's part n parcel of growing up..
