Well, FHM does bring a certain degree of sex-appeal to its
readers... Maxim does it more... and Playboy does that the
most...
Not interested in reading or even touching those magazines, though
they are of different degrees - from mild, hot, sizzling... They
usually give the same end result in deluding guys to only spotting
woman who sexy as their partners and often neglecting other aspects
that are crucial in building a healthy relationship with your
partner... In my opinion, all of them are the same... I'll tell you
why in later paragraphs...
I am not saying that it is wrong for Elynn or Vanessa to be
featured in FHM, it is good for them as they will in turn get more
popularity in their modelling careers...
Personally for me, at that very first time (and last time) that I
went flipping in one of the FHM issues that my father brought home
each month, I was completely shocked by how cheap and how
atrociously the articles in it were written! Omigosh... it is a
whole lot of crap talking about better sex lives, etc. I personally
did not believe in a thing they say, and felt deeply troubled and
regreted my decision to go peeping in my dad's archive of FHM,
Maxim and Playboy Magazine... One FHM Magazine was enough to turn
me off, I think Maxim and Playboy will turn me off even
more...
I really hated that article about love, relationship and sex, I
also hated that article describing women as 'sex machines'... So
grosse! It is a totally distorted view on what love is really like!
Let's face it... sex does not keep a relationship 'hot enough' to
stay together, it never works this way! How can there be love, when
whatever the guy thinks in his head are means and ways to achieve
better sex each time with his partner? That is not love! That is
lust! That is taking advantage of your partner! He is not
respecting her at all... Only mutual love and respect between a
couple helps keep them together... Both parties will have to learn
to respect each other's rights, show care and concern for one
another and love each other with all their hearts... only doing so
will keep the flame for wach other burning as brightly as it is
before... till eternity...
It is very saddening to see such magazines polluting the thought
life of many guys these days... spoils the way they look at
women... I never liked the way some guys stared at girls in my
Poly. They were not just admiring the girls' beauty, but from their
eyes... I can see that string of lustful thoughts in their minds...
which simply disgusts me... It is really disappointing for me to
see guys to think of sex straight after they see a pretty girl on
the streets...
This is my advice to guys out there: We will need to keep our minds
pure for my future partner, so that I can love her with all my
heart and soul... I want to develop that kind of love for my future
wife that goes beyond all odds, not that kind of love that is just
superficial... not attracted to things like any key areas or
sex-appeal, whatsoever... most importantly is how she suits and
compliments me as a partner, and loving her with my whole heart!
:p
To me, superficial love is that kind that does not really last...
Once the other party seem no more attractive, the love for her just
ends there... 
In order to really have the love that is true, that love that is
gentle and kind, that love that is without any jealousy nor hatred,
that love that goes beyond all limitations... one has to make a
stand to not only avoid temptations and rid your system of all
unlovely thoughts and slowly but steadily nurture this love in your
heart to spring forth within you... 
All these are just my point of view of the matter... It is rather
risky to read such magazines, as you will probably be risking
having a good love life with your partner if you indulge too much
in lustful desires... Lust is evil, it ruins love! That is why I am
not taking any chances to take a peek in those magazines anymore. I
do not want to be like my father... I want to be someone who loves
others as much as how much my Creator loves me...
I better cut my post short for now... Don't want to get too
emotional or sentimental typing my views on true love in this
thread... 
