Hi your maid dont have a blanga bf.
You think i anyhow put up a topic to make a laughing stock.
Go and check with your maid and ask them to surrender the
handphone dont ask them wy you need it just want to have a
look.
If your maid can show you infront and say no problem sir, i can
say your maid is a good type of maid but if she say sir, i need to
clear someh msg before you see can. Good luck to you your maid the
msg is belong to blangadesh and may be got sex pict on it.
I have full proof of the person and if you really want to meet
her i can bring it to you infront of her you ask her all the
question you though my forum is joking. The victim is anytime to be
witness in the police station.
Sir, i hope you are not that naive and still think that the
forum is a fake one. I am telling you that all the stories are the
realities. Go and visit toa payoh interchange at Kouful near to the
exhibition area you will see what is say is true and maid holiday
and blangadesh off day is the same. Dont belive me again, go
to all the balestier hotel and open your bloody big eyes and see
whether many maids down there with the blangadesh to made love.
Justifyma
Thanks for bringing up and sharing this issue with all here.
Your concerns are not without merit and justifies a proper response
befitting such.
However, I am not the right person nor have any authority to
help you. I can only share my insight with you, and hopefully find
a solution to your predicament.
The issue you brought up may not be as simple as one may
presume. It is an issue many turn a blind eye to, espacially
Singaporeans, not that they do not care, but most here may not have
maids in employ or have any contact with the Indian worker.
The problem lies with an undeniable natural need both male
or females possessed - sexual longings and love, regardless of
race, religion or gender. For citizens, such needs are often easily
within one grasp and capabilities.
But for the foreigner, more so the long term contract
worker who form no ties with our country, such needs may not
be possible due to restrictions imposed that they do not form
families here and rely on our social funding for support, which is
only meant for citizens.
Where will they go to meet such needs then? For males, it may
possible to visit brothels as prostitution, although frowned upon
but given a blind eye due to its necessity, is still legal here.
However, such visits may be too costly, made more worse by the
continual raids there.
Then where next? No way are we citizens going to sacrifice our
womenfolk for them surely! Thus there exists this segment - the
foriegn domestic helpers. Most govt would thought their problem
solved on this issue. But unfortunately it leads and will lead to
even worse social problems if left unchecked - unwanted pregnancies
and suicides are but just the tip of the iceberg.
Perhaps solutions may be:-
1. Instead of relying on the nanny state to solve it, employers
can take proactive measures such as allowing certain hours for the
domestic helpers to make online connections to her family or bf in
their homeland, to keep in touch and keep the bonds alive, so that
they may not be tempted through loneliness to find comfort
locally.
2. Educating them on the dangers of illicit affairs are
tedious efforts and would often be met with deaf ears, as they are
already adults. Maybe, a more concerned effort to reach out to
them, to encourage the single domestic helper to mix freely, but
you as the employer, get to know her social circle?
Akin to treating her as your daughter, and do as you would do to
your daughter, so that at least you may be in a position of trust
and knowledge to advise her on paths she can or should not take?
After all, she is almost like a kin living with you closely for a
year or two, and should NOT be treated as a slave. We are a
republic and not some slave owning state.
3. As for the males, perhaps CID, which controls the brothels,
can work out lower prices for them to satisfy their natural urges,
so as not to pose a nuisance to others? About a million of them
working here, so better nip the problem before it becomes a
nitemare later on for our female citizens.
It is one thing to claim foriegn workers have such needs but
quite another to pinpoint the one who needs it then and there. They
too, should enjoy their off days unmolested by the authorities and
not picked up for questioning. They too, are human, just like the
rest of us, and not lesser men. We are an equal society in
Singapore and will stay that way as long as our flag still flies
aloft on our homeland and in our hearts.
Hope you will find a solution. Good luck.
