The key thing about horoscope, is to understand how each other
behaves or is behaving.
Link those behaviours to the zodiac, understand, compromise and
learn how to use each other's fault, strength and emotional
directions to complement each other.
Horoscope isnt about just stating you are compatible with each
other or not or what might happen in the end.
Its to help you understand each other's temperaments, likes and
dislikes better.
The strangest thing here about horoscope. Virgo are
fussy. I am a Virgo, and I nag a lot or I have certain quirks
almost like a OCD person.
Aries are spontenous, that may explain how she might be
quarraling with you over what you term as nothing or small
matters.
But if you understand to learn from the horoscope and her likes
and dislikes.....there isnt to say that you cannot beat the odds of
not being able to complement and be with each other.
Unless of course, you are only looking for a excuse to end this
relationship which you find straining.