many years ago, i read an article from newpaper that a couple
get married was cos of convenience. they both go back to the same
home, have their own separate lives and continue seeing other pple.
this is called marriage of convenience, they got married cos of
housing benefits and husband n wife in name only, so i dun see
their marrriage last for long.
some guys settle down to get married cos they are no longer young,
wanted to start a family to carry on their family names. in their
haste to get married, they just choose whichever ger that came
along and after marriage, found out that the ger is not really
suitable for him due to temperament, habits, thinking and the like.
the same also goes for gers as well.
for me, i rather be single than get married and found out that my
wife and I could not get along due to differences in thinking,
outlook, character, habits, lifestyles, and temperament. there are
hassles quarrelling and not to mention the monetary and emotional
costs of divorces and alimony.
last week the 37 year old deliveryman killed his 26 year old wife
of indonesian descent, probably cos of affair outside. their
marriage is clearly a mismatch at the outset due to differences in
age, thinking, temperament, character and also social status.
If I have a wife that have an affair outside, no point in killing
or arguing with her, just file for divorce and get evidence for
adultery to file for divorce in court.
same goes to ger if husband stray outside of marriage.
