subarugal SG Bascially a buddy of mine, throw me with the above-mentioned. But i wasn't able to answer to her, coz i am not a guy. I am throwing this questions in here, hoping to get some respond and answers. Coz i am curious with the answers as well "Do you guys actually address all gals "dear" ?Or Only your loved ones or interested party? Or Using it in a flirt or so called fishing ? Gals are welcome too
the Bear SG so far, i've only addressed 2 people like that.. one was my former fiancee (things kinda went to heck.. but that's another story never to be told ) the other, a very dear friend of mine.. no one else..
subarugal SG Great minds think alike i do came across other who use it as a fishing line.. Its been a long long time, since someone actually address me that... hummmmm.... when is my turn ??
SnowFlag SG Even seen a 60 year old ang moh chasing a 20+ chinese girl, in a not so obvious way. And when the ang moh started to call her dear, she n her friends knew it is time for her to avoid him liao
subarugal SG dear or deer ? Humhh... 'Tao yan' wait get all the dust on me again.. spare me from your dear..
stellazio SG why??my dear is rare one lohz for privilleged people..and for the ang moh case your must understand that its in their culture to call people dear,darling etc..
subarugal SG yeah, ang mo.. i am used to it.. yes their culture to addr dear.. But local seldom, usually got it in pub or etc.. whereby i will wiggle into the pool of crowds.. Local guys use it to fish.. yeeekkk... maybe must learn from my buddies, "Try harder next round" Company with a smile..
SnowFlag SG no lah, imagine a boss started to call her dear, but the rest is addressed by their name. Moreover the boss also known to be that type n the girl is lovely.
Camellias4me SG Like wat stellaboi said.. some pple use it casually. I don't go ard & 'dear' pple.. but when pple 'dear' me.. i'll take it casually.
Båseline SG Nah... I would love to tell them to stop treating me like a letter or email...."Dear so and so..." Nah, put it simply... it could be a easy way out for that guy to so called 'test the water'. If that gal takes it casually, he'll knows it's a no go. Of cos, this may not be true and applies to most scenerios but it's my observation.
