ya lor.. bt not only financial bah, someone who is perceived to
be mature and able to live together with for like long period of
time. of course the love is there la, just not as wild as they were
16. most of the girls i know, have boyfriends whom they claim to
love, but end up the other side any ways. im sure after some time,
they also will also get tired of arguing, patching up only to argue
again. then the whole cycle starts again. they not sian, their
friends also sian.
for me, i'd rather be with a girl whom i love lesser but know that
i can spend whole life with, over someone i love alot but know we
will clash. so its not only love, but whether can live together
anot. for married, more to consider, will clash with family anot,
etc.