haha i think i got post about this b4...
what i wrote was this... which i find it quite true...
dunno how many months back.. or maybe yr.. i read an article... the
part that caught my eye and taught me was that it said, during
REALLIFE conversation, we only use words to convey 7% of the
message... well not like they got some powerful machine to
measure... but it is very true that body language, sign, eye
contact, anything from u and ur gesture, do play a part in
conveying the message...
this makes SMS, MSN or internet chatting a bit hard... for
example... "haha" <-- this can mean a lot when u cannot see the
person face all these... cuz it can be a genuine laugh, or maybe a
sarcastic one....
what i am trying to say here is that, to believe the person anot, u
will have to look at his body language, sign, gesture, eye contact
and many more.... u will then understand the message even
clearer.... and from the body language, u can tell whether the
person is exasgerating (dunno how to spell) or
lying....
at the beginning... u might not really understand the body language
that is being received... just keep trying to read his/her
movement, signs all these.. u will start to understand a person
more and read behind the message through body language and all..
some might say u can read mind.. but it is human ability
(brain) that u can read the body language signs all these, which
directly reflects on the conversation partner mind and
thoughts...
pardon my bad english... just wanna write my point down...
:)
IA
