I do not know what teaching or religion you are in, but one
tends to feel the pyshological effect of one religion or teaching,
for eg, the teaching of buddhism avocate that life is an illusion,
at such, those who followed will lead a simple and contented life,
on the other hand, extremist religion or teaching give rise to
competition and a never satisfactory life, no matter rich and
comfortable they are...teaching also include education, the base of
one education can determine the thinking of an individual in due
course. Therefore, you have to look back on what set up to such
kind of thinking. You should know the best.