Some suggestions
Rochester Park Alfresco Wine and Dine
It's still a fairly exclusive place just behind Bouna Vista MRT.
Pricing might be a bit on the high side but the ambience and
atmosphere most certain is worth the price. Good for a small
gathering of 4-6. Personal recommendation would be "The Classic".
They got very comfortable chairs there to sit and chat for long
hours over some beer. The music playing is normally instrumental or
Jazz.
Bowling
Good for groups of up to about 10. While waiting for your turn
to throw the ball, you can have a short get to know others session.
If the person you are talking to now does not suit you, you have
the perfect excuse to move away and throw your ball and move on to
the next after that. Also a good way to laugh at each other and
have healthy fun.
Ballroom Dancing
Forumites can group together and go sign up for a ballroom
dancing course. We can meet up every week and learn the finer
points of dancing. Also a good time to know each other and develop
closeness. For singles out there, it might just be the correct time
for love to blossom.
BBQ
Yes, it's boring and old. But with good organisation and less
politics, we can organise a fun BBQ with games and fun. It need not
be just meet up, who bring what, blah blah blah. It can even be
made into a major games session in the early evening, a makan
session after 7, and a booze session after 9. We just need a good
organiser.
Lan Gaming Outing
Yes, we all have internet connection at home so why bother? But
playing with your buddies right next to you is something else all
together. The after-coffee session can be used to discuss further
tactics and used to built friendship.
I'll post more when I have more ideas.