i have the same prob... this person always throw tantrum... its
not the normal tantrum, its the scream, shout at the family type...
This person also attention seeker; my sister nurse got very good
observational skills... this person pretend to be sick... a little
pain cry, really cry the tears flowing down his cheeck. and he's 33
yrs old...
All this not so bad... I am fat... One time i talk back to him
wen he's angry. being fat since i was young so wen ppl scold me
being a fatso, guess wat? i am immune to it. He purposely say that
I am fat repeatedly... He oso getting fat so i oso say...Then he
hit me... Y? coz he cannot verbally abuse me anymore, which he
always did wen i was young...
The worse part is, he's my brother... since i was young i always
see him scold my mother till she cry... My parents seem like scared
of him... He took drugs oso b4...
one time, me & my sis help him to download some documents
from the net at his com. Then accidentally press a porn vid... he
knew that it was porn since it was his com, yet he let it run to
make us watch... we wen out immediately lor... disgusting
my sis lost 20kg... so wen my relatives saw her, compliment her
looking better being thinner... wah! he cannot accept saying that
she looks fatter n eat alot? like WTF
how can tahan not hating this person? Really pure hate!
i dun think fairlady case is so extreme as yours. We
cant choose our parents, neither can we for sibling.... some say
blood is thicker then water, others, just sharing of the DNA. We
are who make ourselves to be and it is within our choice whether to
bring the best or the worse in us out. We can be just as mean or
the same badarse we detest or indifferent to them, remaining true
to ourselves.
Just remember that they are only with us for so long.
Once u are making ur own earning, u r free to do as u wish and
truly free. Is that 10~20yrs stuck together worth making u do all
those bad thing in life? Why waste ur time hating them or anyone,
when u can better make full used of ur time???
