for women, their grouses are their in-laws interfering in their
lives and to their hubbies, they are not romantic enough, unlike
before marriage. for men, their grouses will be their wives
incessant non stop nagging.
a word of caution to women, if you always nag and scold your
hubby, your hubby love to you with diminish with every of your nag
and scolding. pls bear that in mind.