I understand it can hurt the self-esteem a lot to lose a guy to
a distasteful old hag. But put yourself in her shoes for a
moment - you're a 50 yo old hag, unmarried, has many
failed relationships, two kids, an abortion and definitely
desperate. One day, you discovered this nice-looking guy in his 20s
who is interested in you and you jolly well know you'll never find
another young guy who likes old hags. If you found out that there's
this young, attractive (assuming you are) lady who's also
interested in him, then of course you would be afraid of losing the
guy to her and simply be hostile to her.
It feels good to condemn someone you dislike and getting
everyone else to agree with you, but at the end of the day, nothing
gets done, and you're still hurt. Take action. If you feel like
being a saint, and believe it's the best for the guy, just give
them your blessings and move on. But if you really like that
guy, snatch him back from her hands - that would be killing two
birds with one stone, and you know you can do it. Remember, she
does not hate you - she fears you.
she has been separated from her husband..but they are still
living together..for wat i also dunno..fren tell me they wont get
divorce because of what i also dunno...u say she old nobody
want..but she keep telling people there is another guy very rich
like her alot wor!dunno if it's true anot la..and i dunno she has
failed relationship or what..but from what i know her abortion i
think it's because she drunk or some one night stand tio de..then
she always tell her bf..u go out with ur fren(woman) then i go find
other men lo...she how old liao..fortunate de already ah ma liao
lo...still got wat...then jiu act like she still 20+ 30..but the
fact she is really so old liao...i sometimes wonder how many time
her kids saw her mother in a year?lol..skali her kids call the maid
mother i also dunno leh...hahahaha
if she is really decent...gd character kind n caring...doesn't
do stupid things behind people's back..i wont hate her de lo...i
got nothing better to do meh..but i really cant think of any of her
gd point..