Bro/sis Outsider,
Help versus being independent.
Snob was NOT injured. At most, her broken shoe only inconvenient
her. When do you offer help?
People use discretion when offering help. And in this case, Snob's
'predicament' is not convincing enough to warrant any help to some
people. take a look at this thread and you can see that it's not
clear cut.
And it's hasty to generalize Singaporean. If TS dictates others not
to judge her, then how can we generalize and judge
Singaporean?
I do not know Snob but from her replies here, she has painted an
ugly, double-standard, self-centered, snob of herself, IMHO.