Hi Rooki,
If you are a teen, this may contradict with what you have been
brought up to understand....if you are open minded, then read
on....
Do you know that the oldest profession in the history of
civilization is prostitution? (Forgot source but correct me if i'm
wrong).
Just like we need 3 meals a day (more for some0, when the time
comes, the human body crave for sex. That's nature's way of making
sure we survive extinction.
Anything obsessive is bad - be it binge on food, drugs, stealing,
internet etc....sex is no different. The only difference is the
approach and execution of such activities. An internet whore will
be despised by her peers and so is a sex-deprived-depraved loser.
Do things with moderation, integrity and respect others and oneself
is crucial here.
For the record, most sex perverts have decent jobs. Those loose
talks here are merely rants and losers losing steam. [Indulging in
own's obsession is indeed a way to relief tension.] They are
perverts because they dunno how and when to get it, and get it
correctly without being a jerk in the society.
Sex should be beautiful, dirty, exciting, messy, whatever as long
as 2 people [or more!] gain from it equally. What is equal? That
will be a difficult qns to answer. Will leave it for another
day.
If sex is merely for reproduction, then, I'm sorry to tell you you
will be a bore to your spouse and if you spouse has craving and not
getting it, he/she will look for it elsewhere. Just like a good
doting husband or a wife that can cook really well, sex is
important.
Some use sex to retain/maintain a relationship. Short term good and
long term...well depends. Again, that's another topic.
You cannot ban everything. Learn to understand why people do
certain things and see if it matches your values. Do you understand
your values?
