yea la i also have my own career, but when you get into a r/s,
you cannot just keep focussing on your career only ma, must also
consider the feelings of the one who is in the r/s with you.
like you mite think it is okie for you to go overseas for a long
time, but the other party mite not think so wor. so you have to
consider that also, and cannot just expect the other party to give
in all the time.
