i'll just say this..
WTF are they doing?
that.. i've seen myself.. a few fellas moved to my hostel after
their lease ran out.. and i realised they never went anywhere other
than to school, to the chinese restaurant, the supermarket and
their apartment.. no where else!! for TWO BLOODY YEARS!!
i went there, made friends with the locals there, lived like the
locals and came back with an education which was more important to
me than the paper itself...
i dragged them out to go out with us, a weird group of
singaporeans, malaysians, indonesian, HK fellas, cook islanders,
samoans, australians, a scot... and had a blast... they later told
me they wasted 2 years of their lives...
we make the best of what we can.. and usually, it's better than
we can even imagine 
im guillty of that. hahaha.
but 6 mths only so still got time to change.
but how do i take the first step leh?
suddenly go talk to strangers... sounds weird right