"Funny" because when I meet him in person he is friendly. But
through SMS or email he appears to be unfriendly. So I am confused
by his mixed signal if he is interested to befriend me or
not.
Usually, if you dont like the person, you would not bother to
interact with him, right?
I just wanted to befriend with him, but he say he have "enough
friends" so he dont want to befriend me?
Is there such a thing as "enough friends"?
Usually, I met a stranger, through some events I get to know
him. When we have things in common we interact more and eventually
developed mutual understanding and later become good friends. That
is the normal way. But guy just stunned me by rejecting my
friendship saying he has "enough friends"!!??
I have things with him now, so if he is not worthy as a friend I
would ask for return of my property. Hence, the concern.
I was thinking that you are a girl and you really want this guy
to be your "friend".
But it turn out that you are worry about your items which you
lent to him ( Fortunately, as the fore-mentioned case will be more
difficult to handle ).
In this case, since he had never been rude to you or whatsoever,
just ask politely for your items back. Be direct about it, and then
see what kind of reaction he gives you. I have no idea what you
lent to him, but the reason why he is friendly towards you might be
because that he doesn't want you to chase after him for those
things.
It is worth a try, and after you asked him, you could post here
and tell us what kind of reaction he gave you.
In case you are interested, the reason why I suggest that you do
so, is because this could easily tell you what does he think of you
as : an acquaintance, a not-so-close friend, or just a living
loanshop.
